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| Letter from a Muslim sister: Don’t try and ‘liberate’ me |
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| Saturday, 16 February 2008 | |
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I am a Muslim woman who lives by the Sharia law and this law gave me the right to inherit, the right to vote, the right to divorce, the right to marry whom I please centuries before women’s rights groups, in the West, such as the suffragettes started campaigning for women’s rights. My family lives under the Sharia law and they don’t force me to wear a scarf, they don’t force me to dress modestly. It is something that I myself choose to do. My family cannot force me to get married since Sharia law forbids them from doing so, they cannot perform a so-called honour killing because sharia law forbids it. They won’t condone female genital mutilation since this is forbidden by Sharia law. They know this because they are educated in their religion and they are educated in Sharia law. It is not the laws of this country that stop my family from a heinous crime towards me because if it were the laws of this country then we still wouldn’t be hearing of families involved in acts such as forced marriages etc. Islam is the only thing which stands in the way of my family committing a serious grievance against me. If other Muslim women feel like they are not getting their rights then I would say that they don’t know their rights, they haven’t been educated in their rights. If their families condone honour killings, forced marriages and genital mutilation then they are not educated about Islam. They know nothing about Islam. They are just cultural ignorants which is what one becomes when emptied of morals. If my family tried to force me into marriage, the first place I would turn to is the Sharia court because Islam is the only religion who allowed me the right of choice. Not the English court where there would be a danger of being stuck up in the media as an example of a 'repressed' Muslim woman, my family, myself and my religion exploited, demonised and ridiculed with the result of becoming estranged and ending up in some sort of womens right 'asylum' still waiting for my rights to be acknowledged and my family to be held accountable and accept me. Nor would I go to the crappy Sharia courts who claim to be going by ‘Sharia’ law and then don’t give a woman her God given right. No I would go to a Sharia court who gives me my right and if they are not giving me my rights I will know and I will hold them to account because I too have access to the Quran. I too have access to my religion. I have read it and I know all the rights it has given me and I'm tired of everyone, be it ignorant Imams, journalists or politicians who try to take my rights away from me or who try and make out that Islam hasn’t given me any rights especially since they have no knowledge of Islam in the first place. The beauty of Islam, is that it is accessible to all. It is not hidden and it upholds the notion of ‘accountability’ and I deplore those Muslims who don’t uphold this notion, who put ignorant Islamic scholars on high pedestals in the name of ‘religiosity’, allowing Islam to be demonised so effectively. As for those women who are crying out for their rights, Islam has already given you your rights if you were to educate yourself. You don’t need to go any further then a true Islamic scholar, educated in the correct Sharia law and who sits in an educated Sharia court and believe me these scholars are plentiful too. Muslim women are not so ‘victimised’ and ‘repressed’ as the western media likes to make them out to be in order to sell their stories. It’s about time we started to acknowledge the rights that Islam has given us instead of being caught up in a culturally ignorant whirlpool because this is why Muslim women end up being repressed. Hold those accountable who are using culture to subjugate you and use Islam to fight them back. I ask all you politicians, journalists and ignorant scholars out there, don’t speak for me. I can speak for myself. Readers have left 7 comments.
Azaad:
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To the Muslim sister:
What an excellent letter. You have also indeed been fortunate to have been born into an enlightened family. What you describe is how Islam was/is meant to be. In most so-called Muslim countries girls/women are habitually abused/mistreated/beaten, even killed, and denied advanced education. The last 'Islamic' government to rule strictly according to their interpretation of the Shariah were the Taliban. I will never forget the scene of the woman in a burkha being shot dead in a football stadium for the entertainment of an all-male crowd. Unfortunately, as I'm sure you are only too painfully aware, everywhere Muslim women are being denied their rights. Men-only Shariah courts can easily slip into culturally biased decisions. Yes, Muslim women should be educated about their rights; but I think it's even more important to educate the men. Good on you.
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2008-02-16 00:18:30
K. Urban:
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Well done.
But,like Saira Khan and Catherine Heseltine, smart Muslim women need to stand up, be seen on TV and other media, and dispel the grossly distorted image that is being deliberately portrayed of Muslim women and Islam in particular. Gordon Brown has not stood up either fast enough or loud enough to stop his Ministers saying these things, and has allowed the awful damage to be done. He cannot cry ignorance. We are left with the conclusion that it is unwritten but official Labour policy to be highly personal about our religion. Muslims must only respond in a legal an intellectual way and especially at the general election. We Muslim Britons certainly don't like our country Britain being attacked, or our faith, which has so much in common with Christianity and Judaism.
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2008-02-16 13:33:58
confusing:
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Azaad - you seem to be confusing a western idea of equality between men and women and equality between men and women in Islam.
Also If this person that was shot shot was wearing a burka how do you know it was a women?
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2008-02-16 15:01:35
James:
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I am not surprised but remain disappointed to see articles like this praising Sharia. Sharia actively discriminates against women and non-Muslims. Proof? Simply put this to the test, in a Sharia court in Pakistan or Saudi Arabia a rape victim needs four independent male witness to secure a conviction. This is due to her testimony being half that of a mans. Indeed there is a likelihood she could be accused of adultery or similar and sentenced to be lashed as happened in Saudi Arabia recently. Oh and that happened in a Sharia court. But if i am wrong and Sharia should not do such things can you please tell the Saudi courts? Or the Taleban for that matter.
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2008-02-16 18:55:02
m:
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as a non muslim i totally agree with the sentiments in this post..as Azaad said you are lucky to have an enlightened family who practice islam not is-sham..
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2008-02-17 09:14:48
Pete Password:
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Refreshing to have a Muslim woman speaking for herself, and I am gratified that there are those who both know their religion and live by it. This, however begs the question; if Islam is so liberal and enlightened towards women in particular, how come the image the non-Muslim world has is of imprisoned women, not allowed to go out alone or with a non-relative male, not allowed to be taught in school with males, forced into arranged marriages, and killed for transgressin the father's authority? If they are all breaking the rules of the Qu'ran, why are they not publicly reprimanded by every good Muslim, why are they not vilified by Muslims rather than others who may have an axe to grind - an axe handed to them by the people who do these un-Islamic things. It seems that whenever Muslims are criticised or their religion vilified, every Muslim organisation leaps to defend or deny, refusing to take any critisism on board, head in the sand. And often accuses those critics of being Islamophobic; an easy excuse to dodge having to answer, just as some Jews do when Israel is criticised, saying the critics must be anti-semitic.
If there were more like you, educating the wider world and countering the crazed Islamist mullahs, non-Muslims would not have the image they have. Power to your elbow sister!
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2008-02-17 15:36:01
Reality Fungus:
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Excellent letter.
I know the young girl recently butchered in Toronto must have felt the same way. In the real world, it is actions and not ethereal ideologies that do the talking when it comes to culture, morality and ethics. The Soviet 'constitution' was one of the most beautiful documents ever written- and we all know how that turned out for Soviet citizens. Ask yourselves about the hijab issue. What is more important- what goes ON the head or what goes IN the head? In the end of course, the author has a valid point, but that is trumped by 'religius authorities' paid by oppressive and dysfunctional regimes that have come to redefine Islam. One only has to listen and watch Middle East media, 'religious' edicts preached from the pulpits and taught in schools. The author has an uphill battle.
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2008-02-24 14:46:40
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I am tired of the media’s shoddy reporting on how ‘repressed’ Muslim women are ever since the Archbishops comments and I am amused by their demonisation of Sharia law with respect to women.










